by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 16, 2026 | Libido, Podcasts
Women have a harder time enjoying sex–so why is the mental load left to her? Today on the podcast we play a bunch of clips of different pastors/speakers that show all the different ways that the mental load & emotional labour for sex are so often placed on...
by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 26, 2023 | Podcasts, Sexual Intimacy
What’s Wrong with Vanilla Sex? Valentine’s Day is coming up just around the corner, and that means that we’re going to start to see lots and lots of articles about how to have hot sex. They will be on magazines. They will be in Christian media. How...
by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 8, 2021 | Making Sex Feel Good
There’s a myth that sexual confidence and being adventurous in bed are synonyms. I think they’re related, but only tangentially, and I think the fact that we equate them is part of the problem. In October and November we’re talking about sexual...
by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 21, 2021 | Bare Marriage
Today I want to revisit a rather controversial topic. Except “want” is really not the right word. I’d love to run as far away from this one as possible. But I keep being asked about sex toys, and I haven’t written about them in a long time, and...
by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 7, 2020 | Making Sex Feel Good
What do you do if your husband accuses you of being boring in bed–or when your husband thinks your sex life is boring? It’s our Sex Questions You Can’t Ask Your Pastor month, and I wanted to start with this one because it’s a great example of...
