by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 6, 2026 | Theology of Marriage and Sex
I’m often accused of swinging the pendulum to the other extreme. Note: this article appeared on my Substack last week, and I wanted it here to to preserve it on my website! Plus I added some good stuff to it! I remember a commenter writing about how her husband was...
by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 29, 2026 | Abuse, Faith
Yesterday I had a message from a woman being summoned in to defend herself to a toxic elders’ board. She had been going to a very hierarchical, controlling church and had realized it wasn’t healthy and had decided to take her family and go elsewhere. The...
by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 27, 2026 | Faith
What if pity is actually a good strategy? And what if pity reveals a bit of God’s heart too? Let me tell you about something that blew my mind yesterday, and I was dreaming about all night. I saw a reel last night where Jameela Jamil was talking about our...
by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 18, 2026 | Theology of Marriage and Sex
I’ve seen so many social media complementarian messages telling women to take the initiative to fix things. One particular one accused women of pride if they saw a problem in the relationship, but then thought: “he’s the leader, go fix it.”...
by Keith Gregoire | Mar 9, 2026 | Connecting, Theology of Marriage and Sex
With thanks to Zondervan and the book To Heal or Harm for sponsoring this post. My husband Keith is in the middle of a 4-part series about why complementarianism has such bad outcomes. He started last week looking at the analogy that complementarians often use when...
