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How Can the Higher Drive Spouse Avoid Giving the Obligation Sex Message?

How Can the Higher Drive Spouse Avoid Giving the Obligation Sex Message?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 30, 2023 | Libido

Being the higher drive spouse can be really frustrating. You want to connect with your spouse, and you want to have a passionate marriage, but it seems like your spouse doesn’t share those same desires. And that can feel like a rejection. This is the last post...
PODCAST: 3 Ways to Talk about Libido Differences

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by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 27, 2022 | Podcasts, Research

We usually talk about libido differences in terms of high vs. low. Who has the higher libido? Who has the lower libido? And are these the best ways to talk about libido? In today’s podcast, we talk about two OTHER ways to conceptualize libido differences that we...
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Why is Wanting Sex So Hard? Can You Boost Your Libido?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 27, 2022 | Libido

For so many of us, sex is the greatest source of tension in our marriage. Now, sometimes it’s for nefarious reasons, like a husband who uses pornography (or a wife who uses pornography). Sometimes there has been major betrayal, or the marriage is just really on...
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by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 6, 2022 | Libido, Series

Welcome to the “what’s killing women’s libido?” series! In the month of June I want to look at some of the reasons that women’s libido is often so low, and look at what we can do about that.  Now, I know that many of you reading this blog...
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Is Evangelicalism Wrecking Women’s Libido?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 1, 2022 | Libido

What if male Christian authors are digging the very hole they’re trying to climb out of–and killing women’s libido? Welcome to June, everybody! And in June, our focus is going to be on libido, asking the question: “What’s killing...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!