Is there hope for recovery for unwanted sexual behaviors, fantasies, or compulsions? I've been wanting to do this podcast for ages! I love Jay Stringer's book Unwanted, and we've connected behind the scenes a bit over the last few months, talking about our respective...
Sex must be mutual, about both people’s pleasure. What if he insists on sex that doesn’t bring her pleasure, and doesn’t try to help her reach orgasm?
Safety is a prerequisite to intimacy in a marriage. If she feels as if she has to earn safety sexually, with her body, she’ll never have real intimacy.
"Help! I hate my breasts being touched!" Every Monday I like to take a Reader Question and take a stab at answering it.Here's one that I think we don't talk about very much: what do you do if there's one part of your body that you absolutely HATE being touched during...
What do you do if your husband always leaves you hanging in bed? He's satisfied, but you're left frustrated? Every Monday I like to answer a Reader Question, and today's is about what happens when the husband always reaches orgasm but makes no effort to see that his...
Every Monday I like to put up a Reader Question and take a stab at answering it. And today we're going to talk about foreplay--or specifically, husbands and foreplay (or lack thereof). One of the ones I get variations of quite frequently goes something like this: My...
What do you do when sex gets boring? Every weekend I try to answer a Reader Question. Here's a woman writing that sex is boring, her marriage is boring, and she wonders how to get the excitement back: We have been married for 3 years and we have a 2 year old. We...
Is masturbation in marriage wrong? For some reason I've received a rash of emails this week from women who are at their wits' end. They'd like to have sex more regularly. They'd like to feel intimate in their marriages. But their husbands seem to prefer masturbation...
Wondering how to spice up your marriage? You've come to the right place! We're 3/4 done the 29 Days to Great Sex, a series I wrote leading up to the release of my book, The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex (which is now available)! We've worked on how to change your...