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Lust Revisited, Just Done with It, and More! Our Weekly Round Up

Lust Revisited, Just Done with It, and More! Our Weekly Round Up

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Dec 9, 2021 | Bare Marriage

We had some WILD conversations about lust on Facebook this week! But first–the podcast is delayed by a day. I know today is podcast day, and it’s all recorded, but Katie, who does my editing and uploading, was without internet all day yesterday due to an...
Unique Period Care Products that Can Revolutionize Your Life

Unique Period Care Products that Can Revolutionize Your Life

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Dec 8, 2021 | For Women

I know this is way too much TMI, but reusable menstrual products changed my life. Seriously. I’m three years past menopause now, but I’ve become a huge advocate for reusable menstrual products, because for the last 15  years of my period I used them. I...
Merch is Here! It’s time to Be a Biblical Woman!

Merch is Here! It’s time to Be a Biblical Woman!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Dec 7, 2021 | Bare Marriage

People have been asking me to get merch for the longest time, and I’ve just never had the bandwidth to sit down and figure it out. But inspired by the webinars we’re doing this week (Tea and Tent Pegs was AMAZING last night with Kristin Kobes Du Mez and...
6 Reasons Your Mind and Body May Not Connect During Sex

6 Reasons Your Mind and Body May Not Connect During Sex

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Dec 6, 2021 | Sexual Intimacy

Sex would be so much easier if our bodies would just do what we want them to do, wouldn’t it? Or if our minds would just get “in the game” when it was time? Welcome to our Embodiment Series, where we’re talking about the mind-body connection....
Postpartum Hand Jobs, Webinars, and a Pornified View of Women

Postpartum Hand Jobs, Webinars, and a Pornified View of Women

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Dec 3, 2021 | Sex

This was a week where postpartum hand jobs were debated on Facebook a TON–and it was super interesting. On Friday I’m starting to do a round-up of the best of my social media platforms this week, for those of you who may have missed it. Often the best...
PODCAST: Can My Vagina Have a Brain? Let’s Talk Mind-Body Connection!

PODCAST: Can My Vagina Have a Brain? Let’s Talk Mind-Body Connection!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Dec 2, 2021 | Podcasts

Let’s jump in with our embodiment series on the blog–and the podcast! This month we’re going to be talking about embodiment, leading up to Christmas. Our bodies are important. Jesus took on human form to live among us. He resurrected bodily, as will...
Arousal Non-Concordance: You Really Need to Know What it Is

Arousal Non-Concordance: You Really Need to Know What it Is

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Dec 1, 2021 | Libido

I’d like to begin a longer, ongoing conversation today about arousal non-concordance. To begin, a quick story. As a teen I always won the game Balderdash. Remember that game? You get a bizarre weird word, and everyone has to make up a definition for it, and then...
Who Believed the Obligation Sex Message More in Your Marriage?

Who Believed the Obligation Sex Message More in Your Marriage?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 30, 2021 | Bare Marriage

The “Obligation Sex Message” is toxic. The idea that a woman is obligated to have sex with her husband when he wants it was the most toxic belief that we measured in our survey of 20,000 women for The Great Sex Rescue–and our survey of men. On...
You Matter: Is the Pendulum Swinging Too Hard Towards Women?

You Matter: Is the Pendulum Swinging Too Hard Towards Women?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 29, 2021 | Bare Marriage

As we’re wrapping up the sexual confidence series today, I’ve been thinking about what the main message is that I want people to take away. For the last two months we’ve been talking about sexual confidence–what it is; what it’s not; how...
The “Sexual Favors” Postpartum Podcast: Can We Please Stop Being Selfish?

The “Sexual Favors” Postpartum Podcast: Can We Please Stop Being Selfish?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 25, 2021 | Bare Marriage, Men's Corner, Podcasts

Rebecca’s postpartum! So we thought it was the perfect time to look at the postpartum advice given in evangelical circles to women. We found in our survey that sex lives can start to go off course with the way that sex is handled postpartum. Many people...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!