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A New Strategic Video Channel to Start Conversations!

A New Strategic Video Channel to Start Conversations!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 19, 2025 | Research

How do we get others to see the truth about healthy sex & marriage teaching? It’s so hard to break through all the slop that’s on social media right now, and there’s an uptick in the number of super patriarchal accounts saying really misogynistic...
The Sex Recovery Series: 4 Point Plan to Rebuild Your Sex Life

The Sex Recovery Series: 4 Point Plan to Rebuild Your Sex Life

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 1, 2022 | Series, Sexual Intimacy

Sometimes our sex lives and marriages get so messy that we don’t even know where to begin with untangling it all.  Sex has become so ugly. We feel distant from each other. We feel unwanted and unloved and used. How do you recover from that? And how do you...
PODCAST: Should Pastors Give Sex Advice?

PODCAST: Should Pastors Give Sex Advice?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 29, 2022 | Making Sex Feel Good, Podcasts, Sexual Intimacy

What happens when pastors give sex advice, but they aren’t trained to do so? This week’s podcast we’re talking about a big question: is it ever useful to expect pastors to give specific sex advice? What is a part of the pastor’s job, and what...
If Sex Feels Terrible…How Can You Look Forward to It?

If Sex Feels Terrible…How Can You Look Forward to It?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 10, 2020 | Sex

So sex feels terrible. You feel nothing–or maybe even some pain. So how do you look forward to it? That’s the question that one of our frequent commenters was asking this week, and I feel for her, because I’ve been in her situation. She’s a...
The Stages of Sex: The Exhausted Years with Kids & Jobs

The Stages of Sex: The Exhausted Years with Kids & Jobs

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 9, 2019 | Libido

What happens to sex when little kids come along? When you find yourselves busy and run off your feet? Every Wednesday in October we’re looking at the stages of sex in marriage. Last week we looked at the “figuring things out” stage, when sex is...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!