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Are Obligation Sex and Marital Rape the Same Thing?

Are Obligation Sex and Marital Rape the Same Thing?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 18, 2023 | Abuse

Is all obligation sex necessarily rape? As we’ve been talking about obligation sex this month, starting with 10 things you need to know about obligation sex, and how obligation sex affects a woman’s body, there’s a conversation that keeps coming up on social media:...
PODCAST: Do Complementarian Men Make the Best Husbands? A Response to Nancy Pearcey

PODCAST: Do Complementarian Men Make the Best Husbands? A Response to Nancy Pearcey

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 14, 2023 | Podcasts, Research

Do complementarian men do best? That’s what Nancy Pearcey says in her new book The Toxic War on Masculinity! Men who believe that marriage is a hierarchy and that men should get the final decisions (complementarians) do best.  This is the podcast (and the op ed)...
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OBLIGATION SEX SERIES: 10 Things to Know about Obligation Sex

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 6, 2023 | Series, Sexual Intimacy

The Great Sex Rescue Toolkit to Combat Toxic Evangelical Teachings on Sex

The Great Sex Rescue Toolkit to Combat Toxic Evangelical Teachings on Sex

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 5, 2023 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

What do you actually SAY to people who believe horrible stuff about sex?  Everyday when I start sipping my tea and check my inbox or social media messages, I’m inevitably greeted by a message that goes something like this:  My church is about to start a small...
Focus on the Family Proves Changing Halfway Isn’t Enough

Focus on the Family Proves Changing Halfway Isn’t Enough

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 28, 2023 | Sexual Intimacy

This week, Focus on the Family actually published something healthy. Now, before I go any further, this does not mean that I think they’re a healthy organization now. They still promote all the same unhealthy authors in their store. They still don’t condone divorce...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!