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Dealing with Secondary Vaginismus: A Newlywed’s Story

Dealing with Secondary Vaginismus: A Newlywed’s Story

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 22, 2021 | For Women

What happens when you develop vaginismus LATER–after you’ve already started having sex? How is this even possible? And can you get over it? That’s what we’re going to talk about today! We’re in the middle of our pelvic floor series, and...
Why Exploring Your Pelvic Floor (and Genitalia!) is Crucial to Your Health and Your Sex Life

Why Exploring Your Pelvic Floor (and Genitalia!) is Crucial to Your Health and Your Sex Life

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 15, 2021 | For Women

What do you know about your pelvic floor? During the month of June we’re talking about pelvic floor issues.  We looked at postpartum recovery, what to expect from a pelvic floor physiotherapist appointment, and the main causes of vaginismus. Today, Bethany...
Why We Need a More Nuanced Conversation about Post-Partum Sex

Why We Need a More Nuanced Conversation about Post-Partum Sex

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 11, 2021 | Sex

When we first wrote The Great Sex Rescue, and started talking about some of the terrible things that we found in evangelical sex books, we didn’t know which themes were going to catch on. I actually thought it was going to be Every Man’s Battle calling...
The Chapter That Got Cut from The Great Sex Rescue

The Chapter That Got Cut from The Great Sex Rescue

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 18, 2021 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

Our first draft of The Great Sex Rescue was almost 80,000 words. We had to cut a lot to get it down to 65,000. So we started with cutting big chunks (which is often easier than cutting a sentence here or there.) And one chapter that we removed was sex as transaction....
100th Podcast Episode! Let’s Talk What Makes Sex Dehumanizing

100th Podcast Episode! Let’s Talk What Makes Sex Dehumanizing

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 14, 2021 | Podcasts

It’s our 100th episode of the Bare Marriage Podcast, and we’re a day late! I think this is the first time the podcast has ever been late. Figures, eh? We had some technical difficulties with the sound for half the podcast and we had to refilm. But...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!