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Have Babies, Not Orgasms? Our Critics Say We’re Against Procreation

Have Babies, Not Orgasms? Our Critics Say We’re Against Procreation

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 10, 2023 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

Last week, Denny Burk accused us of being for women’s pleasure rather than procreation. Burk is the head of the Council for Biblical Manhood and Womanhood, which defends extreme complementarianism (patriarchy), and thinks it’s of God. He wrote an article...
The “Myth of the Magic Penis” Podcast

The “Myth of the Magic Penis” Podcast

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 17, 2022 | Men's Corner, Podcasts, Sexual Intimacy

It’s the podcast where we redefine sex–and talk about how it’s about more than the penis! Today on the podcast I’m introducing the series we’ve been going through this month on the blog–how to recover when one of you, or both of...
Do You Always Have to Put Your Husband Before the Kids?

Do You Always Have to Put Your Husband Before the Kids?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 20, 2022 | Parenting Young Kids

When I was speaking back in the early 2000s, I remember asking women if they were a better wife or a better mother. Almost everyone put their hands up to “better mother.” And I remember saying, why don’t we realize that what kids really need is a...
Can We Honor Our Bodies’ Rhythms? And Why that May Mean Saying No to Sex Sometimes

Can We Honor Our Bodies’ Rhythms? And Why that May Mean Saying No to Sex Sometimes

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 15, 2022 | Libido, Sexual Intimacy

God created life with natural rhythms. But I feel like much of the effort of modern life is to obliterate those rhythms. Two things got me thinking about this lately, and I’d like to tell you about them and then explore this further. Exhibit A: I had COVID....
Postpartum Hand Jobs, Webinars, and a Pornified View of Women

Postpartum Hand Jobs, Webinars, and a Pornified View of Women

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Dec 3, 2021 | Sex

This was a week where postpartum hand jobs were debated on Facebook a TON–and it was super interesting. On Friday I’m starting to do a round-up of the best of my social media platforms this week, for those of you who may have missed it. Often the best...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!