What if the sex that is being described by many male authors is actually male-centric? What if the way they're talking about sex actually hints that it's not about her pleasure at all, but is simply focused on his climax during intercourse? That's what we think is...
Sex must be mutual, about both people’s pleasure. What if he insists on sex that doesn’t bring her pleasure, and doesn’t try to help her reach orgasm?
What if women don’t naturally want sex less than men do? Rebecca here again on the blog with another study for you! Researchers from the University of Toronto have come out with really interesting research about what impacts women’s enjoyment of sex. Note from...
What does "lingerie" mean to you? Some of us, when we think lingerie, immediately think of sexy, lacy pieces that take about 10 minutes to actually get into and about 30 seconds to take off. You know the pieces I'm talking about--the ones that are really meant to be...
How do you have great sex when it's hot outside and you have no air conditioning? We talk a lot about making sex great here on the blog, and this month we want to focus on giving you some helpful and practical tips to help you make sex even better in your marriage!...
What do you do when you want to spice things up, but you don't know where to start? This whole month we're going to be talking every Wednesday about practical ways to spice up your sex life and make sex great! It's going to be a lot of fun, and there's a ton of great...
How can a man be a generous lover? Last week we talked about what it took for a wife to be a generous lover. And all month we've been looking at what it means for sex to be a mutual experience--where it's meant to be good for both of you, where both of you are the...
How do you adjust to having sex once you're married--especially if you decided to wait until marriage to have sex? I know I didn't make that transition well! And so when a newlywed blogger asked to write this post for me, I thought it would be awesome! Now, if you're...
How Can You Make Your Husband Feel Good for Valentine's Day? Romance is in the air--or, if it's not at your house, maybe you can sprinkle it there! Because Valentine's Day lands on a Top 10 Tuesday for my blog, I was debating what I should write about. And then it...
If you want to have more regular orgasms, you've come to the right place! Let's talk today about how to become more orgasmic. Every Monday I like to post a reader question and take a stab at answering it, and here's one that I get quite frequently. A reader writes, I...
What do you do if your husband always leaves you hanging in bed? He's satisfied, but you're left frustrated? Every Monday I like to answer a Reader Question, and today's is about what happens when the husband always reaches orgasm but makes no effort to see that his...
What do you do when sex gets boring? Every weekend I try to answer a Reader Question. Here's a woman writing that sex is boring, her marriage is boring, and she wonders how to get the excitement back: We have been married for 3 years and we have a 2 year old. We...
Wondering how to spice up your marriage? You've come to the right place! We're 3/4 done the 29 Days to Great Sex, a series I wrote leading up to the release of my book, The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex (which is now available)! We've worked on how to change your...