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Let’s Talk About Wet Towels on the Bed

Let’s Talk About Wet Towels on the Bed

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 22, 2022 | Life, Marriage, Resolving Conflict

So the wet towels anecdote from Love & Respect has gone big on social media this week. And I wanted to share it with you! As some of you may remember, I’ve been appalled at what Emerson Eggerichs said in his book Love & Respect (again, the most used...
She’s Someone–Plus Priming for Abuse

She’s Someone–Plus Priming for Abuse

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 8, 2022 | Abuse, Preparing for Marriage, Theology of Marriage and Sex

Can we talk about how our messages about a woman’s role can actually undermine her safety? Just a quick catch-up for today’s post! I want to share a few things I’ve seen on social media and then throw this open for discussion. I’m taking a bit...
Should Matt Chandler Be Joking about Whipping His Kids? Plus Fill Up Your Podcast Queue!

Should Matt Chandler Be Joking about Whipping His Kids? Plus Fill Up Your Podcast Queue!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 6, 2022 | Faith, Parenting Young Kids, Theology of Marriage and Sex

Yesterday on the podcast we looked at the metaanalysis about spanking, and talked about gentle parenting. That metaanalysis of 160,000 children found that spanking was either neutral or negative, but not positive. Like if you parent well in other areas, you can blunt...
On Kissing Before Marriage, Hilarious Reviews, and Horrifying Advice

On Kissing Before Marriage, Hilarious Reviews, and Horrifying Advice

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 29, 2022 | Bare Marriage, Preparing for Marriage, Research, Theology of Marriage and Sex

On Fridays I like to take a look at what’s been happening on social media this week, because often most of the writing/thoughts end up on Facebook or Instagram, and if you mostly read the blog you may miss them. So let’s go: Let’s talk Kissing Before...
Remembering that God Loves Women, Too

Remembering that God Loves Women, Too

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 1, 2022 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

Jesus did not come to redeem men, so that men could then in turn redeem women. Jesus is not more relatable to men than to women, and men are not more in the image of God than women. And yet this week there were all too many examples that tried to make Christianity...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!