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New Starter Playlists for the Bare Marriage Podcast!

New Starter Playlists for the Bare Marriage Podcast!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 7, 2026 | Bare Marriage, For Men, Marriage, Theology of Marriage and Sex

How do you find the best Bare Marriage episodes? What if you’re trying to introduce our podcast to a friend, but you don’t know where to start? Or what if you desperately want  your husband to listen and understand what you’ve learned, but it’s...
Why Do Women Often Create the Most Toxic Content?

Why Do Women Often Create the Most Toxic Content?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Dec 3, 2025 | Marriage

Why is it that the worst messages are often shared by women? Why is it that it’s often social media accounts run by women, and books written by women, which are the most adamant about preaching obligation sex, women’s unilateral submission, women having subordinate...
How A Comment Thread on A Social Media Post Represents A Masculinity Panic: Let’s Analyze!

How A Comment Thread on A Social Media Post Represents A Masculinity Panic: Let’s Analyze!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Dec 1, 2025 | Men's Corner, Research, Sexual Intimacy

Social media comments often give a sobering insight into what men are thinking. And today I’d like to show you what a thematic analysis of social media comments would look like! As you may know, we’re quite busy behind the scenes drafting academic papers,...
How Can We Talk about Men’s Sexual Desire in a Healthy Way?

How Can We Talk about Men’s Sexual Desire in a Healthy Way?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 26, 2025 | Libido, Theology of Marriage and Sex

One of the most frequent questions I get from men is this one: How can I get my wife to understand my sexual needs? He feels like he’s in a sex-starved marriage, and he’s desperate for sex. But the more he talks about sex, the more his wife pulls away. What’s the...
PODCASt: How to Avoid Inadvertently Giving Your Kids Hangups About Sex

PODCASt: How to Avoid Inadvertently Giving Your Kids Hangups About Sex

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 18, 2025 | Parenting Teens, Podcasts

We want our kids to grow up with healthy views of sexuality. We certainly don’t want them to end up with the hangups that many of their millennial/Gen x parents had because of purity culture. But sometimes we can end up going too far in the other direction, and...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!