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Should We Teach Kids They’re Dirty Rotten Sinners?

Should We Teach Kids They’re Dirty Rotten Sinners?

by Rebecca Lindenbach | May 3, 2022 | Faith, Parenting Teens, Parenting Young Kids

Christian parenting advice seems to really like discipline and obedience. Rebecca here on the blog today. As I was researching other parenting books and various Christian parenting blogs as I wrote my book, Why I Didn’t Rebel, this focus on repentance and...
How Do We Make Sure These Two Horrific News Articles Stop Happening?

How Do We Make Sure These Two Horrific News Articles Stop Happening?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 2, 2022 | Abuse

I read two terrible news articles over the weekend that had me grieving and got me all riled up. News article #1: A woman reports her rape to her Christian college, and is then is banned from campus for having pre-marital sex. NBC News explains what happened: When...
On Kissing Before Marriage, Hilarious Reviews, and Horrifying Advice

On Kissing Before Marriage, Hilarious Reviews, and Horrifying Advice

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 29, 2022 | Bare Marriage, Preparing for Marriage, Research, Theology of Marriage and Sex

On Fridays I like to take a look at what’s been happening on social media this week, because often most of the writing/thoughts end up on Facebook or Instagram, and if you mostly read the blog you may miss them. So let’s go: Let’s talk Kissing Before...
PODCAST: Do You Know Your Attachment Style? with Krispin Mayfield

PODCAST: Do You Know Your Attachment Style? with Krispin Mayfield

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 28, 2022 | Podcasts

I’m so excited to be switching gears for a month to talk about attachment! I’ve been reading some books in the last year, and thinking and talking to people who are super smart, and I’ve become convinced that many issues in our marriages and...
Do we Think Jesus Saves Women so Women Can Save Men?

Do we Think Jesus Saves Women so Women Can Save Men?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 27, 2022 | Marriage, Theology of Marriage and Sex

How is it that we defeat sin? According to the Bible, the Holy Spirit transforms us into the likeness of Christ (Romans 8:29) and sanctifies us once we make Jesus Lord of our life. We live by the Spirit (Romans 8) and we aren’t slaves to sin anymore. We take...
You Don’t Have to Say Yes to Selfish Sex

You Don’t Have to Say Yes to Selfish Sex

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 25, 2022 | Making Sex Feel Good, Sexual Intimacy

Why My First Post-COVID Speaking Engagement Started with an Apology

Why My First Post-COVID Speaking Engagement Started with an Apology

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 22, 2022 | Bare Marriage

PODCAST: Do Christians Have Better Sex Lives? A Response to Josh Howerton

PODCAST: Do Christians Have Better Sex Lives? A Response to Josh Howerton

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 21, 2022 | Podcasts

Keith: It’s a Short Line from Male Power to Abuse of Women and Children

Keith: It’s a Short Line from Male Power to Abuse of Women and Children

by Keith Gregoire | Apr 20, 2022 | Abuse

Why Evangelicals Can’t Influence the World about Sex

Why Evangelicals Can’t Influence the World about Sex

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 19, 2022 | Faith, Libido, Sex, Sexual Intimacy

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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

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