We’ve got some new findings from our survey of 20,000 women! Behind the scenes, for the last year, between running new numbers for blog posts and podcasts, and presenting at conferences, Joanna Sawatsky (my amazing co-author for The Great Sex Rescue and She Deserves...
Ready for some new research on orgasm? It's been a while since we shared some new findings in the areas of sex and marriage, and we've been saving new peer reviewed articles and studies to tell you about! Today we thought we'd focus on two that relate to obligation...
You can definitely tell if a woman is aroused. But what if some marriage authors or teachers don’t understand the difference between a woman being willing to have sex and a woman being aroused? Too often, teaching around marriage and sexuality centres the male...
Yes, it's true--you can have years in your marriage when sex is going great! We're talking on Wednesdays in the month of October about the different stages of sex in marriage. We've covered: The Honeymoon Years--when sex often ISN'T actually that great because you're...
If your wife never wants to sleep with you, and if sex has become rare in your marriage, what can you do to get your wife in the mood? A lot of my readers are actually HUSBANDS (I'm so glad you're here!), and so every now and then I like to offer up a "men's corner"...
What happens to sex when little kids come along? When you find yourselves busy and run off your feet? Every Wednesday in October we're looking at the stages of sex in marriage. Last week we looked at the "figuring things out" stage, when sex is relatively new (and I...
What do you do if you're in the newlywed phase, but you've never had an orgasm? This week we've been talking about the "figuring things out" stage of sex, and I've been explaining that, for most people, the best years of sex in marriage are not actually the honeymoon...
In marriage, I think we go through several different stages of sex! And this month, for our October series, I'd like to go over those different stages, look at the fun parts of each one; look at the red flags that may pop up; and then look at how we can make each...
If a man is trying to recover from a porn addiction, does he need to detoxify by making sure that he never sees any woman who could be alluring? One of the biggest searches that land people on this blog is for the effects of porn on the brain, and so I have a lot of...
Can you have a porn-free home? I wish I could say, "absolutely!", but I can't. I don't even like the title of this post, because it promises something I can't deliver. I was thinking of "Porn Safe", but that makes it sound like your home is safe FOR porn. Then I was...
Why aren't you having more sex in your marriage? "Because I don't want to!" or "Because he has a low sex drive!" Those are likely the two most common reasons. And when the question comes around about why sex isn't more frequent, we usually focus on one of two things:...
Is it ever OK for a husband to ask his wife to act like other women in order to be sexier? On Monday I asked what your thoughts were on a reader's question about her husband wanting her to be more sexy, and you had a lot of great thoughts! So thank you for...
When it comes to sex, are there some things that are best kept to yourself?So it's Tuesday, and I still can't type.(In fact, this is actually Rebecca writing out the post on Sheila's behalf again.)Normally we get our posts scheduled a few days ahead of time. But on...
A woman's husband had a secret porn addiction, so she gets rid of his smartphone to help him in his sobriety. Another woman checks her husband's email after she found out he cheated on her. A third woman changes the bank account password because her husband was...
What kind of underwear should you wear? And can choosing the right kind for you body type help you feel sexy? I'm on a mission this month to help us all reclaim our lingerie drawers and choose items that help us feel sexy! Every Wednesday in the month of August we're...