If we want sex to be awesome, then we need to be able to feel like sex is for us too. We need to feel like we matter. Sex is supposed to be mutual, intimate, and pleasurable for both, and mutuality and intimacy means that you are both coming to the bedroom willingly,...
It's the podcast where we redefine sex--and talk about how it's about more than the penis! Today on the podcast I'm introducing the series we've been going through this month on the blog--how to recover when one of you, or both of you, have dug your sex life into a...
I was not kind to my body yesterday, and I am feeling it! When people used to complain about food insensitivities, I never really understood until it started happening to me. I've been having some real issues with gluten lately, and I've largely gone off of bread. But...
Women, you are not living in a dream world if you want to be married to a guy who doesn't lust. It is perfectly reasonable, and utterly biblical, to expect that your husband will not lust after other women--or at least will actively fight a battle with this temptation...
Does the fact that "men are visually stimulated" mean that all men will struggle with lust? That's certainly the way it's commonly presented. We hear things like "Every man's battle" talking about how the biggest struggle all men face is battling lust. We're told that...
Do you tell on a friend if you find out she had an affair? Every Monday I like to post a reader question, and today's is a biggie: so a friend had an affair, and it's gotten really complicated. Do you tell her family? I'm honestly not sure how to answer this one, so...
How do you have sex with your husband if he has a big belly? That may seem like a little out of the ordinary for a Reader Question of the Week, but it's amazing how often I get it. Not to intentionally make a pun, but this is a big problem. When your husband is too...
How Can You Make Your Husband Feel Good for Valentine's Day? Romance is in the air--or, if it's not at your house, maybe you can sprinkle it there! Because Valentine's Day lands on a Top 10 Tuesday for my blog, I was debating what I should write about. And then it...
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I've written a lot about what to do when you realize your husband watches porn, and why porn is so damaging to marriage--even if you watch it together. Today Dr. Wyatt Fisher, a Christian psychologist with tons of experience in actually treating porn addiction. Porn...
When I give my Girl Talk in churches, I always share this one best sex tip I'm going to give you today. Of course, I ease in to it. I don't say it right off the bat, because people would likely have a heart attack that someone is talking about that in a church! But by...
If you want to have more regular orgasms, you've come to the right place! Let's talk today about how to become more orgasmic. Every Monday I like to post a reader question and take a stab at answering it, and here's one that I get quite frequently. A reader writes, I...
Female porn addicts--it's not an oxymoron. In fact, more and more women are becoming addicted to porn. It's not just a man's problem anymore. I've written before about how porn affects the male brain, but today, for Top 10 Tuesday, I want to look at it from a...
Does the purity culture movement do more harm than good? Last week I wrote a three part series on vaginismus, when you experience pain during intercourse. And in that series we ended up discussing the purity culture in modern Christianity, and its potentially harmful...
I get so many emails from women saying, "my husband never initiates sex." And it hurts them, because women like to feel chased. We like to feel like our husbands truly want us. And so today, for Wifey Wednesday, I thought I'd look at what to do if your husband just...