What if the sex that is being described by many male authors is actually male-centric? What if the way they're talking about sex actually hints that it's not about her pleasure at all, but is simply focused on his climax during intercourse? That's what we think is...
Why do people hate our research for The Great Sex Rescue so much? Well, really hate our research for everything, including our new book She Deserves Better! Last week, a Twitter storm broke out with me at the center of it. Podcast host Patrick Miller invited Josh...
Every Young Man's Battle is a dangerous book. Part of the Every Man's Battle series, it is addressed to teenage boys to help them battle lust and pornography. I hear about Christian schools and youth groups that are still going through it with 13, 14, or 15-year-old...
Women have a unique perspective on marriage and sex--because we have unique experiences! Yet sometimes women are missing from the conversation, because most pastors and big name marriage authors are male. So I invited six of the best female marriage & sex bloggers...
What do you do if your husband wants sex everyday, but isn't interested at all in how you feel about it or how you feel during it? On Mondays I like to take a reader question and take a stab at answering it, and I thought that, since I hadn't done an Ask Sheila video...
Are wives to blame if their husbands use pornography? One of the things we've been talking about on the blog lately is that you are not to blame if your spouse has an affair. You may have contributed to serious marriage problems. You may even have been the biggest...
What does "lingerie" mean to you? Some of us, when we think lingerie, immediately think of sexy, lacy pieces that take about 10 minutes to actually get into and about 30 seconds to take off. You know the pieces I'm talking about--the ones that are really meant to be...
When you discover that your husband is cheating on you, or using pornography, should you forgive right away and work on rebuilding the marriage? Or if you discover that your wife is cheating on you, should you put that aside for the sake of the marriage and work on...
Guys, could you tell if your wife is faking it? I'm really grateful that I have so many men read the blog (and thank you so much to my male commenters who are part of this community as well). I know that many guys appreciate hearing healthy teaching about sex that...
The problem we often run into when sex isn't working well is that many of us don't know what's normal and what's not. We don't talk about this stuff in great detail, and so often when something doesn't work, we assume one of two things: either that everyone is going...
Ever feel like your sex drives never match up--like your libidos are just never in sync? On Wednesdays this month we're looking at practical help for improving your sex life, and today I thought I'd turn to libido issues. Libido is something that I've written a LOT...
Want to get more adventurous when it comes to sex, but don't know where to start? This month we're focusing on practical tips for a better sex life. We've talked about how to try new positions, how to have sex even when it's so hot you don't want to touch each other,...
I've got some questions from newlyweds today! On Mondays I like to take reader questions and take a stab at answering them, but I have so many in backlog that in July I'm going to try to work several questions into my Monday posts. We already did a lightning round of...
How do you have great sex when it's hot outside and you have no air conditioning? We talk a lot about making sex great here on the blog, and this month we want to focus on giving you some helpful and practical tips to help you make sex even better in your marriage!...
What do you do when you want to spice things up, but you don't know where to start? This whole month we're going to be talking every Wednesday about practical ways to spice up your sex life and make sex great! It's going to be a lot of fun, and there's a ton of great...