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PODCAST: How Many Christian Men Are Safe? Plus What Masculinity Is!

PODCAST: How Many Christian Men Are Safe? Plus What Masculinity Is!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 31, 2022 | Men's Corner, Podcasts

It’s time to talk to the guys today–and look at what masculinity really is! On the last Thursday of every month I like to aim the podcasts more at men (though of course women can get a lot of them too!). And today we tackled safe masculinity, or what true...
Real Men are not Bullies: Let’s Talk about the Church’s View of Masculinity

Real Men are not Bullies: Let’s Talk about the Church’s View of Masculinity

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 30, 2022 | Men's Corner

Every now and then my husband has something he really needs to get off of his chest, and this is one of those days! So I’m going to turn the blog over to him today, because he’d like to talk about masculinity. We’ll be talking about this on...
The Great Sex Rescue got in Mainstream American Christian Media!

The Great Sex Rescue got in Mainstream American Christian Media!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 29, 2022 | Bare Marriage, Books, Sex

Baptist News covered The Great Sex Rescue–and had a great interview with a pastor! One of our frustrations with publicity for The Great Sex Rescue is that mainstream American Christian outlets (magazines, websites, radio shows, etc.) won’t cover it. In...
When Going to Church Leads to Worse Outcomes for Teen Girls

When Going to Church Leads to Worse Outcomes for Teen Girls

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 28, 2022 | Parenting Teens

On almost every measure, church attendance is good for you. Researchers have consistently found that religiosity is positively correlated with better mental health, better health overall, better relationships, and even longevity. BUT–and there’s a very big...
Echoes of Menstruation: Spoken Word Poetry

Echoes of Menstruation: Spoken Word Poetry

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 25, 2022 | For Women

Let’s talk about the echoes of menstruation. Yesterday on the podcast, we were discussing how Focus on the Family’s PluggedIn movie review of Turning Red put references to preteen girls’ periods under “sexual content”, and warned that the...
PODCAST: Echoes of Menstruation? Really, Focus on the Family?

PODCAST: Echoes of Menstruation? Really, Focus on the Family?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 24, 2022 | Podcasts

So apparently preteen girls’ cramps and pads are sexual, according to Focus on the Family. We have a little bit of a detour today because something blew up last week that I just had to address! Rebecca noticed that in Focus on the Family’s PluggedIn movie...
What’s Next with Our Research on Sex, Marriage, and Gender

What’s Next with Our Research on Sex, Marriage, and Gender

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 23, 2022 | Bare Marriage

Everyday I get more questions about our survey, and about our data, and what we’ll be studying next! I thought I’d try to answer that today in one central place. We’ve done the largest and most comprehensive studies of marriage and sex on evangelical...
Who is Safer to Date: Christian Men or Secular Men?

Who is Safer to Date: Christian Men or Secular Men?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 22, 2022 | Preparing for Marriage

Do you feel safer in Christian spaces or non-Christian ones? That can be a hard one to answer because there are so many variables, but yesterday I set off a firestorm with my post that only 33.7% of married, evangelical men meet our four criteria for being sexually...
How Many Christian Men Are Sexually Safe Husbands?

How Many Christian Men Are Sexually Safe Husbands?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 21, 2022 | Men's Corner, Pornography

How many Christian husbands see sex in a healthy way? We know that sexual sin, and porn use, and objectification of women are rampant. But it’s not everywhere. So how many guys aren’t affected by this? In February and March I’m posting several...
On Christianity Today, Plagiarism Culture, and Feeling Erased

On Christianity Today, Plagiarism Culture, and Feeling Erased

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 18, 2022 | Faith

This has been a week of great thrills and great disappointments. Thankfully, the thrills were REALLY GOOD. Our new books The Good Guy’s Guide to Great Sex and The Good Girl’s Guide to Great Sex launched, and they’re doing really well! Thank you for...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!