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AGING PARENTS SERIES: Setting Boundaries with Aging Parents

AGING PARENTS SERIES: Setting Boundaries with Aging Parents

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 19, 2022 | Extended Family, Life

How do you set boundaries on how much help you can reasonably give to aging parents? This week I’m re-running a series I wrote a few years ago. We started  yesterday talking about how parents should really try to help their adult children who will be caring for...
aging Parents series: You Owe Your Adult Children a Life

aging Parents series: You Owe Your Adult Children a Life

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 18, 2022 | Extended Family, Family, Life, Series

If you need your adult children to eventually care for you, then that should factor into an equation NOW. I’ve been thinking about something for a while now that I’d like to just say. It’s going to be a bit of a rant, and I may not sound very...
How Camping Made Me Realize My Bras Hurt

How Camping Made Me Realize My Bras Hurt

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 15, 2022 | For Women, Life

Keith and I have been in the RV for a week and I have made a significant discovery! First, though, I’m not going to have a normal post up today. I’m in vacation mode and couldn’t think of anything about marriage to write about. Rebecca, however, has...
PODCAST: Girls Are Not Stumbling Blocks

PODCAST: Girls Are Not Stumbling Blocks

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 14, 2022 | Podcasts, Theology of Marriage and Sex

I am very, very tired of the “don’t be a stumbling block” argument when it comes to modesty for girls. I know that this is a very widespread debate, and I have talked about it before in two main posts: My 40% Modesty Rule Why Don’t Be a...
10 Ways Hollywood Warps our Expectations about Sex

10 Ways Hollywood Warps our Expectations about Sex

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 13, 2022 | Pornography, Sex, Sexual Intimacy

Has Hollywood totally messed up our sex lives? I talk a lot about how evangelical teaching has messed up our expectations around sex. But let’s face it–a lot of those expectations are in movies and shows, too! Behind the scenes at the blog we’re...
What Does “Husband is Head of the Wife” Mean? And Are We Reading Hierarchy into It?

What Does “Husband is Head of the Wife” Mean? And Are We Reading Hierarchy into It?

by Keith Gregoire | Jul 12, 2022 | Men's Corner, Spiritual Intimacy, Theology of Marriage and Sex

Hey, everybody! Keith and I have been on vacation this week, just camping and hanging out and doing a whole lot of nothing. He had something on his mind yesterday and wrote up this post that he wanted to share! So here’s what he’s thinking about when he...
Unveiling a Ten Year Project: Plus Serving a God Who Knits Everything Together

Unveiling a Ten Year Project: Plus Serving a God Who Knits Everything Together

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 11, 2022 | Faith, Life

On the a vacation we took just over a decade ago, I started knitting a blanket. It was what knitters call a “sock yarn blanket”, meaning that it’s made from all the ends of balls you have after you’ve finished a pair of socks. For twenty years...
She’s Someone–Plus Priming for Abuse

She’s Someone–Plus Priming for Abuse

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 8, 2022 | Abuse, Preparing for Marriage, Theology of Marriage and Sex

Can we talk about how our messages about a woman’s role can actually undermine her safety? Just a quick catch-up for today’s post! I want to share a few things I’ve seen on social media and then throw this open for discussion. I’m taking a bit...
PODCAST: Let’s Revisit the Logical Inconsistencies of Unconditional Respect

PODCAST: Let’s Revisit the Logical Inconsistencies of Unconditional Respect

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 7, 2022 | Abuse, Marriage, Podcasts, Resolving Conflict

Unconditional respect isn’t a thing. And yet we’re often told that men need unconditional respect, just like women need unconditional love. It’s summertime, so I’m taking a month off of recording new podcasts, and instead I’m going to...
11 Dumb Things People Believe about Marriage

11 Dumb Things People Believe about Marriage

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 6, 2022 | Marriage, Preparing for Marriage, Resolving Conflict

Lots of people believe a lot of dumb things about marriage! I’m in the middle of moving our site to our new Bare Marriage domain (we should be up and running by the end of the month!), and we’re only taking posts from 2018 and forward with us, leaving over...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!